Bringing Sexy Back Into Our Sex Lives- How To Get It Right

Bringing Sexy Back Into Our Sex Lives
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Sexy

A very little word that has a whole lot of meaning in just four letters…
A quick search of it throws back a string of synonyms:

seductive, desirable, sensual, sultry, tempting, exciting, interesting, appealing, intriguingthe list goes on!

So, how do we translate that into sex, and the broader context of bringing sexy back into our sex lives?

The formula

If it were as easy as 1+1=2, sexologists would be out of jobs, and the world would probably be a perfect place (with unicorns and rainbows that have pots of gold at the end of them), but it ain’t!

When you’ve past that initial ‘exceptionally hot sex’ of a new relationship, sex can become routine. A few years down the line, throw kids into the mix and your sex life can really tank!

Keeping it fresh and exciting takes work, lots of work. By the end of your day you’re exhausted – between work, kids & life in general – putting your feet up while watching your favorite TV show seems the easiest option… sound familiar?

So, how do we get this ‘Bringing Sexy Back Into Our Sex Lives’ thing right… all the time?

Bringing sexy back into our sex lives takes work, but you can reap the rewards… God gave you a vagina that can have multiple orgasms… so why the hell don’t we take advantage of it!?!

I’m sure we all agree that we’d love to be on our A-game every time we did it, but in reality – life happens. Our role as women is highly pressured, and it can seriously fog our minds. But, here’s the key…

When you step into your bedroom, it should become your sexy sanctuary. It should be that place where you can harbor…

seduction, desire, sensuality, sultriness, temptation, excitement, interest, appeal and intrigue

… the place where you become the synonym of sexy.

Start by throwing out the crap that fogs your mind… the work stress, the kids, the lists of things that you need to get done. Those things distract you from that very little four letter word that means so much…

Focus on becoming the synonym of sexy. Your mind is probably the most powerful tool you have in your arsenal. Think about it… those times when you’ve had the best sex in your life were ten to one the times when your head space was filled with sexy. The second you drift away from that, is the second your orgasm becomes a unicorn!

You also need to feel sexy. If that means going out and buying a whole drawer of new lingerie, then that’s what you have to do! Think about it, when you wake up in the morning and decide which nicker’s you’ll wear that day… that’s where sex starts for a lot of us! That’s what we do as women… we’re always planning…

So, start with a new plan and make your bedroom your sexy sanctuary.
Live it… love it… be it!

Sassy Jess

xoxo

 

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1 Comment

  1. Hi Afra,

    What a wonderful idea!

    There are many great options available to you that can be really fun with regards to anal fantasies. Anything from stick on diamante/embellishments to decorate your back, sexy lingerie or even a butt plug with jewel embellishments or a tail. It will all depend on what makes you feel comfortable and sexy.

    Remember, most importantly it’s all about having fun and feeling sexy!

    The Sassy Wives Club team

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